August 2021

BAM MOVEMENT Monthly Inspirational Blog

Let’s talk about healing after being wounded. What is the definition of a wound? A wound is an injury to living tissue caused by a cut, blow, or other impact. Was your wound self-inflicted or accidental?

About 7 months ago, I received an injury to my heart and it was cut in 2 , and I could definitely feel the blow or impact to my heart and feelings of being wounded. My husband told me in December that he wanted a divorce. He said that he was tired of living this life. He said that he went to church for me , stopped drinking for me, and stopped smoking for me. He also said,”

can’t you tell I have been avoiding you and haven’t been intimate with you?” I would see him attend church occasionally and seemed to enjoy it. So I assumed a transformation. Right?

Suddenly,I had to face the ugly truth. and proceeded with all the divorce paperwork. A friend stopped me. ““She said the only way you are going to heal is ” Forgiveness “.” I said, Sarcastically, ” Oh Ok”, ” Forgiveness”. She said. “ You need to forgive yourself and to forgive him in order for my healing to begin.” Was I unequally yoked before marriage? Did he have only a form of godliness? God asked us to pray as such……….

Matthew 6:12
12 And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive them that trespass against us.

These are 9 Steps Of My Healing

1. Take Responsibility
2. Forgive yourself and others
3. Re-evaluate your circle of friends.
4. Seek counseling
5. Get into your word
6. Pray and Fast.
7. Do What Jesus Would Do
8. Listen To God’s Voice
9. Faith, Faith,and More Faith

My mantra this year is “ Do it Scared”.

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